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mythejane99
Hi :).. i don t think I will arrange some meeting with him, bc it hurts me SO MUCH,it makes me so depressed, he thinks im okay bc i try to act happy, laugh before him, but im not, i would like tell him that i feel depressed, But idont know what to do, i dont think i cant bear seeing him in class everyday anymore :(( i would feel ashamed telling him that im depressed,the saying out of sight, out of mind would help but i see him everyday,today we went to church on our first period (bc we go attend church school), and he's always ministrant, and the songs they play there seems sad to him, and when i look at him , i feel i would start crying before everyone :/....And last year our teacher gave us one name od one of the classmates and we should help this person , talk to him more, and the teacher gave HIM my name, and on valentimes date he gave me note saying: "im glad you are", i thought that IT was bc he likes me and in that moment i started to feel something more fór him , and when i confessed to him about my feeling, i gave HIM note saying also "im glad you are" bc i thought he liked me, But then i found out that i was the person that teacher gave HIM , so maybe he gave me valentines note bc of it and i feel awkward and ashamed,why he us so friendly to ako girls in my class and to me is distant ://
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Hi! Perhaps the valentine note from him was because the teacher nominated you, but that does not prove he does not care for you. Being more friendly to other girls in class does not prove much either way. Does he just seem to be more friendly to your eye? I assume none of them are actually his girlfriend? And it is easier for guys to be more friendly with girls they are not crazy about than the one they are. We can be awkward and not so comfortable around the girl we would most like to be with sometimes because there is sort of 'more at stake' as you could say. We care more about how they see us and the outcome. Staying bright and happy and up-beat when he is around is a very good idea, even if it is a bit of an act. We like being around happy people with a positive attitude. We sometimes tend to avoid down and depressing people. So don't suddenly tell him you are depressed, because of him and how you feel about him. Stay up-beat and attract his attention that way. Obviously, I cannot tell you everything will work out the way you want. But when I read what you have said in your questions I should say you are still very much in the game, and in there with as much chance as any other girl in class. Keep looking for any opportunity to talk with him, engage with him, get on-board with any group activity he is in, and so on. Make your presence felt. But in a good way. For goodness sake don't get all soulful and sorrowful/depressive looking whenever he is around. That is giving entirely the wrong message mate! He won't want a miserable girlfriend, will he? Hang on in there, and keep looking out for those opportunities. X
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