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i wanf to have sex with a older man
14/f. Virgin.
Im very horny and i dont have a boyfriend. I want someone experienced and most older men have a big oenis so it would hurt a little and i want that. How do i get a man to have sex with me? It can be anyone - relative, teacher, random etc
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Hey! Think about what you're saying and planning here! It's not too difficult for a girl to find a guy willing to have sex with her. But if you go about it with this attitude there's a fatal flaw. You're only going to attract guys who basically just want to use you for sex and no more. Now I can guarantee however experienced and/or well-endowed your 'older lover' is, this isn't going to make you feel special, valued, loved or indeed even very good about yourself at all. All you're going to feel is used. Come on. You can do better than that. You deserve better than that.
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I think this is your fantasy.. I think this is something that you want but when you are actually in this situation its not something you actually want. You dont even have your license yet and your looking to have sex? Defiantly masturbate you are going to want to be intimate with someone that you actually care about. you probably will actually be traumatized if you have sex with an older man. size actually doesn't matter either to be honest. ANd so what this happens once, taking the risk of unknown STDS for your first time. So after you have sex once and you get rid of your satisfaction and it doesnt happen again your not going to be sad? don't you want to be with someone who will actually care about you. Everyone goes through this phase its normal to want to satisfy yourself but not having random acts of sex with different people.
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Have you ever heard the term JAIL BAIT, because at 14 that's is what you are. For any man or boy over the age of 18 who has sex with a girl under the age of consent, a legal term that differs from state to state, that is where he could spend the better part of his the rest of life in jail.
As for penis size once a boy goes through puberty the size of his penis is the size he will be for the rest of his life. The difference between a teenage boy and the older male is experience. An experienced older mail may be more careful in taking your virginity then a teenage boy but that is about all.
IF this is what you want someone who will appreciate your giving of your virginity then I suggest you wait until your old enough to have sex with an older man without the chance of him going to jail. This means finding out what the age of consent is in your state.
As for having sex with a teacher, that is out of the question as the teacher could lose his job if it is ever found out. As for a relative particularly a close relative that is incest and is illegal. As for someone random the other factors I have spoken about come into play.
Your 14 and horny this is normal and part of puberty. Learn to pleasure yourself through masturbation. For it is safe and is very pleasurable when done in a safe and private place like your bedroom behind a locked door so you are not intruded on. No girl has ever gotten pregnant from masturbation. Masturbation also lets you learn about your body what you like and don't like. How you like to be touched and where.
In four years you will be of legal age and can have sex with who ever you want and no one can tell you otherwise.
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I don't think that's a good idea just masturbate! Then like when ur 17 or so just try to turn on an older man so u can have the experience especially since if that were to happen now he could get charged for rape! So masturbate for now trust me I'm 13 and feel the same way but it happened to my friend and now she's pregnant
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