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im having sex tomorrow i need advice
14/f
Tomorrow im sleeping at my boyfriend and his friend is dating my friend. His friend told my friend that mt boyfriend is planning on having sex with me. Im a virgin. I want to because im always horny. Can anyone give me tips and advice? Positions?
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You should have a discussion with your boyfriend before you just jump right into having sex. You need to be protected and careful. How long have you been dating this guy for? I lost my virginity at the age of 18. My only tip and advice is that its suppose to be all natural sex isnt played out and thinking of the position you want next. If you both have decided your ready you just need to be safe.
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14 is way to young to be having sex for any reason being horny is not a reason. Having sex with your boyfriend because if you don't he will leave you is not one of them either.
Read the advice I gave you in your last question. If you are dead set on having sex and we cannot change you mind then at least tell your boyfriend to wear a condom. No condom no sex. In this way you have an 86% chance of not getting pregnant.
Just for the record a woman can get pregnant the first time she has sex or the 101st time. If she is anywhere between the 7th and 21st day of her cycle she is in her fertile period and depending on when she ovulates depends on if she will get pregnant.
Make him use a condom or keep your pants and panties on.
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I have to tell you that I really think you are rushing into something that you are not ready for yet. Always feeling horny due to hormones is NOT a good reason to have sex.
You should never rush into it and at least not without more information, being on birth control, protection and totally prepared. If you have doubts, anxiety or worries about doing this than that's your brain telling you not to.
While he may not want to hear (and tough if he doesn't) that you don't feel ready and want to wait he MUST respect this and there's nothing wrong with telling him that this won't happen tomorrow and you want to be prepared and totally comfortable with the idea and if you aren't he needs to be aware. If he loves you he will understand. If he doesn't it means you are with the wrong person.
The other potentially bad situation is being alone with him and sleeping at his house. I don't know how wise that is or what your parents would think or if they know of the arrangement.
Sex shouldn't happen due to hormones and constant surges. That's a bad reason. There are many ways to deal with this that do not involve having intercourse.
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