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he was showing signs he found me attractive but..?
theres this guy in three of my classes in university. So i didnt notice him at first but i noticed that he watched me everytime i would walk past him to my seat, then the next week he kept glancing in my direction mind you he sits in the upper far left while i sit in upper middle if that makes sense. Then the week after one time he looked back to listen to my convo and then smiled turning around. Which made me loose my train of thought cause i noticed he was actually kind of cute and then my friend made a joke saying "your boyfriend is looking at you again" because she noticed from that first day of walking past him that he was looking at me, so now in the second class hes in he used to sit in the back and i know this because i sat near the front so obviously to get to my seat id have to see him but ever sincr that day in the first class he now sits in the front near me, and then this week i was having a bad hair week so i would wear my hood from my jacket everyday and then i saw him wearing his hood (i know its prob a coincidence). Then my third class he usually exits from a different door and not the door i go from but all of a sudden he starts using the door i go through.So i was thinking maybe he did like me until, yesterday i saw him printing from a computer outside the library and he was looking at me and my friends and then when he was in the print line which was super long my friend was in front of me so she walked past him and his head TURNED following her movement, idk if he was still watching when i past him but all i know is when she walked past him his head turned and he was just watching, so now im confused because maybe the whole time i thought he was looking at me he was actually looking at my friend. The thing is though when hes looking at me we give eye contact and my friend is in the first class i have with him (the class he was glancing while i was talking) so idk if he was watching her because he was watching her butt, or because the print line was too long so he was wondering where she was going (doesnt explain why he was looking for so long) or this whole time it was her he was looking at in my first class and in my second and third classes he prob only sat near me in hopes to be my friend to get to her. This whole thing is kind of bothering me because i have low self-esteem so its a miracle to me if a guy took interest in me because its always my friends they go after, so if he does end up liking her its no surprise to be honest. What do you think? Do you think he likes her or me? Or do you think he was just watching her to see where she was going or just looking at her butt, we are all 18 by the way and thank you if you have read this far and actually answer this
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I can't answer whether he was checking out you or your friend. Guys don't tend to approach girls who have their friends with them. It's awkward for one, knowing that all the others may be mad at him for not singling them out.
You are a very observant person with all the details you gave of his moves. Eye contact is a positive thing but you will need to learn some body language and what the subtlers signs of flirting may be in order to know if he's interested in you.
Ever have a person walk up to you and stand so close it made you uncomfortable? We have our personal space around us and if someone we are not interested in comes closer than arms length, we subconsciously will step back away to recreate that space. We actually move closer and if seated tend to lean towards the person if interested. Then theres something called mirroring. Any movement or action you take, they do the same or pretty close. Example: You go to move a lock of hair behind your ear and he touches his head in some way immediately. Your cross your legs and he may do a version of the same. There are plenty you tube videos of this demonstrated, plus the angling of ones body.
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