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Im so lonely
Im 17, girl and im in high school, im really shy and im introvert....im feel so lonely and depressed ..i have friend in classmate but im not really close to them ....there are two girls in my classmate im mostly talking but the two of them are really close and they talk to me they dont tell me more personal stuff...how am i supposed to join them when they're already good friend, and i feel lonely because no one texts me first or asks me to hang out with them :/ :( i ask them to hang out with me, they says but on the last minúte tney cancel it, even im introvert i want to go out with my friend , but i have no one to go out with , i go out with my best friend but we dont meet often bc she goes on different high school, and she's busy, im also jealous of my twin brother (we go to the same class) bc he goes out everyday friday, and im at home :(...so i dont know how to.get close to these girls i talk to and im kinda friend.with them..im.scared to be spontaneous for example spontaneously take photo with them.bc im scared i will embarrass or they wouldn like to také photo.with me...i have this problem with other stuff :/ so please help me what to.do
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I'm sorry you're having a difficult time making friends. I can say from personal experience that it can be hard to push past being shy and introverted. However, I encourage you to do just that. It may feel weird and uncomfortable at first but you have to realize that not everyone is gonna make the first move or go out of their way to strike up a conversation. Even though it may be hard sometimes, making the first move and talking to someone could very well lead you to building a great friendship with someone. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Those that reject you aren't good friends anyways. The ones that stick around and accept you for who you are, are the ones that you should consider friends. Also, remember that making friends requires you to be a good friend as well. I hope that this helps in someway and that you push past the shyness. They're are so many different types of people at high school so just remember, there is someone out there that you can connect with in some way. Hope that I could help. God bless!
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