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This question is just for guys
I want to know from a guy's point of view is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out?
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In short, yes. In this day and age everyone likes to be seen as equal - men and women. And as such it seems a little sexist to say that its a mans job to ask someone out. It used to be a woman's job to cook and clean but we don't stick to such archaic (and ridiculous) beliefs anymore. In the same way I have always believed if a girl (or woman) likes a guy then by all means just ask him out. Women can be really shy but men can be pretty much the same too so a woman making that first move is never a bad thing in my opinion - and I'm not just saying that because I tend to be shy at times too. :)
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Back in the dark ages of when your parents or even when your grandparents were your age a girl was considered very forward if she asked a boy out. The one exception was for the Sadie Hawkins Day Dance.
Today things are very different. No one thinks twice about a girl approaching a guy she likes if he hasn't approached her. Just make sure he isn't involved with someone else. Then if you know each other already go up to him and ask him if he would like to do something with you. IF you are not acquainted introduce yourself and tell him he looks like someone you would like to get to know better. Depending on you age you can then ask him to go out for coffee with you or whatever is appropriate for your age.
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