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I don't know what to say
I told a past friend that was my friend that I wasn't talking bad about them and their friends had heard wrong and there had been a lot of drama that happened between me and this individual and they said back to me "Dude I'm not on the drama either, that's why I keep blocking you and your friends that mention you." I don't know what he's referring to but he blocked me on social media before that and I assume it's because he doesn't want any drama and he thinks that more might come up. I don't know what to tell him but I want to prove to him that I'm not in or about to start drama
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My first thought is that this guy and you must have differing idea's of what drama is to you. So before you go working hard to fix things, be sure what his idea of drama is.
For him, drama may not be the extremes of what you or friends says or do. If something like that happened once a month, maybe he could handle it. It may be HOw Often the so called drama happens.
For males, it is sometimes the fact that a female, or perhaps gay male is constantly contacting them, several calls a day or worse, tons of texts per hour. The overwhelming attempts at contact is enough for a person to label it drama. Hopefully that is not what has been happenning.
For those who see that they have a life to live that is right out there beyond the confines of their iphone, they will just tune out this kind of contact on social media.
You did say you were friends with him. Are you sure he still wants to be friends with you? Cus really close best buds or friends don't usually tell a friend who'se been a friend all along that they are now blocking them without any explanation. So figure out what the actual drama that he is trying to avoid is. Then ask him in person next time you see him. He may be interested in you but doesnt want to inherit a dozen of your buddies in the mix. You won't know how to proceed on this until you know what the 'drama' is so you can go about making the changes to keep his friendship if it is even worth it in the end.
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