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Does this girl like me as more than just friends?
I met a girl last semester who is friends with my best friend. The three of us would talk and hang out but then over the summer, me and her texted regularly and went on a few dates. We were both busy with work and stuff and towards the end of the summer we didn't talk as regularly, so I decided to wait until the new semester to see if i could better gauge the situation. The three of us again have class this semester and often hang out all together. However, me and her text almost everyday. I would like to try and move back to just me and her hanging out like we did over the summer but I am afraid of potentially losing the friendship if it doesn't work out. Last night, we were texting and it transitioned to a more genuine conversation about when we met, rather than our usual back and forth jokes at each other. We exchanged several txts about meeting and how weird it would have been if we had not met. Here are some responses from her.. she talked about how when we first met we weren't as comfortable together but how quickly things changed to us being very comfortable. She also said that quote..."now that you have me, im not going anywhere.. because you cant make me like being friends with you and then leave me so surprise!! your stuck :P"
" I got your number the first lab so bang bang I'm a go getter I forced you to be my friend from there on out ;) I feel like if you get that close to someone that quick it's a good thing you know a good sign,"
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I'm female and my impression is that what she's doing is an awful lot of trouble to go thru just to have a male friend.
Now I can see a female who has romantic feellings about a guy perhaps being this bold and saying what she did.
Her words though are more of a challenge and reprimandation to you. She seems to feel that you originally reached out to her, got her interest going and by time she was on board, you'd lost interest in her somewhat and she's just warning you its not a nice thing to do and letting you know she won't let you get away with it, trying to brush her off. So it sounds like she is genuinely interested in you and waiting for your next move. If you dont make one, I am sure she will as she seems the type. However, she may be hoping more that you reach out first rather than her having to make the next move on your fr iendship or dating.
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Dear reader,
From my view it does seem to be some sort of flirtatious conversation. She does seem a little forceful. Now i do not know the whole conversation but by the two quotes it seems that she is trying to demand that you two be together.
I know that nobody likes to hear this but if you really do want to know all you have to do is ask.
You also have to ask yourself, do you like her in that way? Then you decide where you want to go from there. The only one who can tell you how you feel is yourself. Another thing is you must be totally honest about how you feel, and ask her to do the same and that should get you somewhere.
I wish you the best of luck,
~gabriel~
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