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Get into Figth
Me and My husband always get into fight nowadays. he always make small things into big deal. Every time we fight I'm always controlling myself not fight back. Although its not my fault. I think I can no longer hold my temper.
Iam from Philippines
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So you are saying that only happens these days, currently but it wasn't the case in the past? If so, then something must have changed in your lives to bring bring to his life. When people are stressed, instead of finding proper ways to release stress, they tend to dump on the people closest to them. In my case I too had to remain silent because defending myself or arguing added fuel to his fire. You can't reason with such a people. It takes outside help. In our case, we saw a counselor. I would suggest you folks talking to someone too. Perhaps the Dr. can determine what has caused this change. However if he's been like this all along as in my case with my ex, he only got worse as the years went by and A dR. determined that He also had some mental illness causing problems and he didn't want to follow treatment and kept saying he wasn't the problem. When you end up at such a stalemate, then you either stay and be miserable with him or you leave. I don't know living situations and marital laws are in Phillipines. You may be better off checking with a counselor first near you.
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