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im 15 never had a boyfriend
hey im a 15 year old girl from greece.Im kind of worried that i will never find a boyfriend..i mean yes im just 15 too young but when u see your friends having boys and stuff u worrying.I liked some boys..2 of them ver very much but nothing..and i dont thing that im likeable for boys..and im a girl who does not want to be in a relationship just to say it or something so its more difficult because i want to like a lot the boy im going to be in a relationship and never boys im in love or at least i like , likes me back..
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And how many hetero sexual girls who never had a male prom date are now married with kids to their High school prom date? I don't know of any. I never had any boyfriends in school and neither did 2 daughters who went with a group of girlfriends.
One is married, the other engaged and expecting. If you can find one girl still with her High school boyfriend 10, 20 or 30 years later, then it is amazing because even those who marry in their 20s (me at 20) have a greater amount who end up divorced and in a better marriage 2nd time around? That would be me too! When we are young, there is so much we don't know yet about ourselves, the male, about dating and relationships and the do's and do nots. These are things that might have made some situations way better, but then again with that information, I might have known my first choice of husband was not a good one and stayed away from him but heck at 20 I felt I was mature. And you may be at 15, but what is lacking at this stage of life is 'life lessons' and that we can only learn 2 ways,
1. Going through it ourselves
2. Hearing the message from others and heeding it
you have nothing to worrry about. You may have heard plenty about boys your age only wanting sex at this age, not a relationship.
Since I havent the time, best I can say right now is learn to tell the difference of what girls call "love' and what a teen boy same age call it. Same word but different actions. She expects a close friend romantic relationship, he is in lust and wants sex. there are exceptions to rules always but the best thing to do Right now is learn to be a close friend of a guy to get used to the idea. Pass this along to the guys you like. Meantion wanting to learn how to act around guys and thoght he might be the friendliest andj most patient and see where that goes.
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It's actually a good thing not to want to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship and a very good thing to wait until you feel a very special attraction/connection to one particular boy before you do. The fact that two you had your eye on did not seem to return the attraction certainly does not mean you're unattractive to boys. Make no mistake about that. It's two-way thing. The guys could have had any number of reasons why they did not seem to notice you. Maybe they just didn't want a relationship? Maybe they just wanted something more casual, and you aren't really up for that anyway, are you? Just keep on keeping on, as they say. Don't get to worrying. If you want to be with a guy who likes you for being who and what you are, you have to BE who and what you are. Don't you agree? And that doesn't only apply at 15. It's a life-long thing. You don't NEED a boyfriend to make you somehow 'complete'. And any old boyfriend will do! I think you're doing a whole lot better than YOU think you are. You show a mature and excellent outlook. Your doubts are just 'peer group pressure' (feeling you have to do what your friends do). You're an individual. Possibly you have realised that a little earlier than your friends? Be the girl who gets what she wants, not one who who just takes what she can get!
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You are 15 trust me when I tell you, enjoy being young, have fun, make memories you have your whole life to date and make stupid decisions...... Not having guys chase after you yet isn't a bad sign honestly most boys arent focusing on that right now... You need to make sure you know who YOU are as a person before being with someone and thats 1 huge reason relationships don't work while your young because you dont know anything about yourself.....
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