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Hi, I was wondering if you can finger yourself before you get yo ur FIRST period ever? Thanks
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You certainly can. It's not unusual to find very young girls have discovered that they get very pleasurable sensations by touching or pressing against their sexual parts. Long before they associate the pleasure with being sexual at all. It just 'feels nice' and that's all there is to it. No harm in that at all. Of course, around puberty things change and a girl WILL realise that it's a sexual thing. But that's nothing to worry about either mate. Just part of growing up. I think I can guess what you're thinking? That you're going to grow up with some sort of 'sex addiction' because you seem to be enjoying it rather too early? Absolutely wrong! It signifies nothing. In fact at least some of your friends will be in the same place you are. They probably won't have told you. But I doubt you have told them either? Relax. You're fine.
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Your period is not a true indicator of your entry into puberty. In fact it is one of the results of you starting into puberty. As one starts in to puberty they also start to have sexual feelings and become sexually frustrated as well. Masturbation, fingering yourself, is a great way to relieve those sexual frustrations.
You have or probably will be told by your parents that masturbation is wrong, sinful or dirty. They are wrong. In fact they masturbate every time the make love as it is part of foreplay for them it is called mutual masturbation. A recent survey say that 85% of us masturbate.
When you feel the need to the best thing to do is to go to your room, make sure to lock the door, get comfortable and finger yourself. Another place where you have complete privacy would be in the shower or bath. Privacy and making sure you will be undisturbed is important to have a good experience.
Why as parents we tell you masturbation is bad is simple. It is enjoyable and we know it leads to wanting the real thing. Just remember that now girl has ever gotten pregnant from masturbating. If your waiting for your first period you have plenty of time to wait for the real thing.
short answer to your question: It is perfectly okay to finger yourself now.
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