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Crush problems
I have this crush, even though it feels more than a crush, and I just told him how I feel. He said he wants to get to know me better, but he's not making any moves to try to learn anything about me at all. I try talking to him during band when we sit next to each other, but it's more like me saying something, him saying his opinion, then awkward silence for the next 20 minutes. Recently though my best friend told me one if her friends told her that my crush has a crush on her. It makes sense. He does really seem to talk to and hang around her a lot. My best friend has made it very clear that she doesn't share his feelings. Does this mean he lied to me about getting to know me better? I'm kinda hurt. Plus, to make it all worse, I can't get him out of my head! He's perfect, at least to me and he's always there in my head when I'm daydreaming! I was going to talk to him about it, but it doesn't seem he even wants to be around me anymore than he has to, and it really hurts. I'm really shy, so I'm not looking forward to talking to him if I have to. I know this is a lot of info, but this really needs to be sorted out and I can't figure out what to do!
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Just go with the flow and let it be. If he likes you, then he likes you. If he doesn't, then he doesn't. Don't lock up your mind that he's the only guy you'd ever like, because he's not. There are tons of other guys out there, don't block out opportunities just because you think he's perfect for you. And if by any case he really does like your friend, then you have no right to control what he's feeling. Be matured and let them be.
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Hello darling! I read your "issue" and I could feel your frustration. You seem to really like this guy,as he is perfect to you, when in real life he is imperfectly perfect and just a human being trying to figure out life just like you and me. First of all, everything is going to be okey. You are going to get through this no matter what.I promise! I admire the fact that you made a move and let him in on your feelings about him. You are a brave girl for doing that and I wanted to let you know. When you told him how you felt and he responded that he wanted to get to know you better, maybe it came across wrong. Maybe he meant as a friend or he was just trying to be nice to you. It sucks, I know. He probably does not like you but so what? Sometimes, we have to let people go because there is nothing we can do about the situation. You cannot force sb to like you. It would be a torture for both of you. YOU are YOU and that doesnt change. If he didnt like your story, then it was not written for him. Move on and find happiness within yourself. You shouldnt seek happiness in other people, because happiness comes from the inside. You have an entire life infront you, waiting to be explored and taken advantage of. Dont let yourself drown in one boy who probably didnt like you. You are smarter than that and you can do better. I believe in you and if you ever need anything else I am here for you and I CARE! Go girlyyyyyy :)
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