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HELP! 14 and my boobs are sagging
Hello im 14 and my boobs are sagging but they also have stretch marks witch gives me low self-esteem please help what do i do ????????
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Since often we are more critical of our breasts and private parts than others, it would be good to know whether our shape and or size is normal. Then again, you may be one of those girls who grew boobs when you were in 3rd grade and they truly are huge. When the size or weight gain is very quick in a shorter period of time, stretch marks can appear. Most will disappear over time.
So the concern is all to do with self esteem and how you look or comfort. If breasts are too heavy, even with bra's, over time the straps cut deep grooves into the shoulder and a gal can live with daily back pain due to the heavy upper weight. If by chance you believe you are at any point too large and have complications because of it, like the back ache, its worth looking into whether insurance will cover reducing size but they won't do it as far as I've heard, until a teen stops growing. And you have years of growth ahead if your body continued to change until you are 18-20. Until then, a very good support bra will be necessary. As Razhie said, a dedicated bra store is the best place to go for that. Keep in mind that the larger the bra, most companies don't spend the time to make them cute, lacy, or decorated in some way, they will be very plain. I would still suggest getting the one that fits best and is most comfortable and either you or Mom adding lace appliques, or other designs to stitch on from your local craft or fabric store.
Lastly I will post link to a site that features breast shots of women who have sent their own photo in. It covers the vast array of sizes of nipples, areola's and breasts as well as asymetrical. So you will see that you are not the only one.
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Stretch marks are entirely normal part of development. If your body is still growing, it's totally normal to see some stretch marks. They will likely fade in time.
If you aren't happy with the way your breasts look under your clothes, go to a dedicated bra store and get a bra fitting. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes... yours are probably perfectly healthy and 100% normal, but a good bra can make you feel more confident and most women end up wearing bras that are the wrong size for their bodies.
Please don't compare your body to people you see on TV or in commercials (or even worse, porn). Models and performers tend to represent a very narrow kind of body and breast. Yours are 100% fine and nearly anyone you decide to show em too will be (and should be) thrilled.
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