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Do not want to keep this life anymore


Question Posted Tuesday August 23 2016, 4:36 pm

I am a 24years old girl...I have PCOS, unwanted facial hair and everything possible ugly things regarding my appearance..I have obesity, high cholesterol, thyroid and blood sugar as well..I am so sick that I can not go to my research laboratory regularly.. so a bad reputation of absenteism i have..my parents are literally tensed about me..i am under medical treatment..but i do not wish to live so lack of motivation and depression causing no affect on my medication..i am becoming burden to my parents..a guy wants to marry me but i know my condition will only get worse..so i won't be able to fill his life with happiness and can not serve all marital urges..i do not want to become a burden in his life too...i just want to die...if anyone can show me some rays of hope please help..

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday August 24 2016, 12:50 pm:
Please don't take what I am about to suggest or offer as a suggestion the wrong way. I am making it with the knowledge of a friend who had similar problems but not total PCOS. She had very bad Endometriosis. Her doctor wanted to do a complete hysterectomy but she refused as she wanted to try and get pregnant. She never did. She ended dying at the young age of 63 from Diabetes, heart disease and other complications. All of which I read about under symptoms of PCOS.

MY question and suggestion are the same . If the problem is related to the reproductive system would not a complete hysterectomy solve the problem? In what I read I did not see that as a solution only ways to limit the impact on fertility were given.

If the chances of having children are minimal at best and the chances of uterine cancer are high. Why run the risk? Remove the organ and have a somewhat normal life. If removing the organ solves the problem the depression will lift, the obesity can be reduced and all the other things PCOS is causing should return to normal and you can marry the man who wants to marry you. If you wish to have children there are literally hundreds of children in need of loving homes. You can adopt or be foster parents.

Doctors are always looking for cures and that cure is always just around the corner. You want a solution. If you feel that my suggestion has merit then talk to you GYN.

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