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follow up - adding details
Sorry for the second one here but I forgot some details. He also had said brb he's going to make a sandwich... Then he went to go talk to that fake account.
You seem knowledgeable and honestly the only one I've talked to who's truly wise. So I want to make sure you have the full picture. He truly broke his promises. And his excuse about the friend was so ridiculous.
On the one with my fake account, he originally said "I just wanted to be friends" because he didn't know what else to say. Then he changed his story. Then he changed it again saying he didn't know why he did. That's obviously horseshit, his excuse.
I also forgot to mention that his dream wasn't to live here. It was only that he wanted to come here so that he can live near me. But we couldn't visit before that because of something on my end that makes it impossible for the next three years unless it was in secret and I had no opportunity to do so.
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Thank you for the followup. It seems you have already figured him out dear. When it comes to relationships and love, its a mixed bag out there. Not every person is going to be a solid good person through out. So it helps to be cautious and like yourself, not ready to take what someone says and does at face value, believing it to be true until a person can prove them selves by being consistant over time to be good. The fact that you ran into him doesnt mean that you are bad at picking out good people. Its just that so many are good at faking it. When you finally catch someone in lies , the idea is to not to associate with them and learn those warning signs so you can spot fake people sooner. Even after a divorce in later years and going into dating again, I met more fake, false, liars than good guys. It can be frustrating, but don't give up. There will be someone decent out there for you one day.
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