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What to do about new and old relationship.
I'm a 17 year old female. When I was 13 I began dating this guy who was in my grade, we hit it off and fell in love. We dated for 3 years. We had taken about 2 breaks throughout the 3 years when stuff got rough but we really did care for each other. There were great times and bad times. I lost my virginity and such. Things had gotten pretty bad toward the end. The last time we broke up was over a semi-small fight and when he tried to reconcile I told him I wanted to work on things but while on a break to make things easier. He was upset and said he wanted it over. A couple weeks later he wanted to try again. I had been hurt so many times in the relationship towards the end that even when he begged for another chance I just couldn't. My family doesn't like him for hurting me. Then after a while I began talking to another guy and he's perfect we've been dating for 7 months, he deals with my crazyness, he has my same goals, is hard working and kind. The problem is, he's perfect and I feel like I don't have closure with the ex I dated for 3 years. It's really eating at me but I really almost love the new guy and he's everything I want. I wouldn't come for advice if it wasn't bothering me so much, I just need some new perspectives.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
First, no one is perfect in a relationship. In the beginning we are usually on our best behavior giving the illusion of perfection. The fact that your ex is your "first" is most likely why you feel confused. As females our emotional connection to our "first" is more intense. You are still a teenager and haven't even started experiencing lifes ups and downs. "This too shall pass"
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