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To "Razhie" RE: "Should I tell him? Why is he acting like this?"
Razhie,
If you as an advicenator like to give advice, why do you feel the need to criticize people and use objectifying words in your "advice". Sure you can explain your thoughts how it is, and how you feel but using curse words to make a point and belittling issues is not a right way to do so. Now regarding your advice about my car, he already does know the make of both of my cars, I was referring to him asking about the year of my car. I felt this was not important to tell him because he feels that we are always in a competition of who is better. Before giving advice, I would advise you to thoroughly read and try to understand the asker before criticizing and cursing. Will not be monitoring your answers anymore. Good luck.
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I'm sorry I misunderstood that the problem was solely the year, not the make. I don't really know cars. Honestly, I didn't realize make and year weren't basically the same thing.
Now, understanding that detail better, there is nothing about my advice I need to change, except to substitute the one work for the other. I don't think your car is really the core of the problem here. If he feels the need to keep pushing, and you feel the need to join in the competition you believe is happening by withholding, then that I what I'd call a trust and respect issue. You don't have to agree with me. That's always fine. I've been here long enough to be totally comfortable with that as the nature of advice.
Good luck sorting out this dilemma with your boyfriend.
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