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I caught my step- brother what do I do ?
I caught my step brother what do I do !?
Okay so I lived with my Dad, because my mom didn't want anything to do with me. So he started dating this women, and she had 2 kids. Finally they got married and I was forced to move in with them. I had to leave all my friends, family...etc. Anyways I already have step brothers that live with me. A couple of months ago my dad sadly passed away and I was still forced to live with my step mom because like I said my mom didn't want any thing to do with me. So her 2 kids names are Van(16 yrs old) and Tayler ( 15 yrs old). We have a big family because I have other step siblings so I was forced to share a room with Van and Tayler. So heres what happened. Last night Van snuck out to a party and to meet his girlfriend. I didn't want to have anything to do with it so if he got caught I wasn't covering for his ass. So around 3 am they both came in. btw I share a bed with Van. I think they thought I was asleep but I wasn't. I could tell they had been drinking but anyway he came in and she sat down on my bed. then he came up and they started making out ew gross. So I decided to try to go to bed. I fell asleep for a little bit but when I woke up they were having sex right beside me on MY BED ! it was the most disgusting thing I ever saw I was freaking out inside. Finally I got up and said can you guys do that somewhere else. Yet they proceded with having sex. The next morning she left and I was getting breakfast and Van was down there and was staring at me with a bad look. I said What? then he said Your Dead. He chased me all the way up the stairs and I locked the door and hid in my closet. I can still hear him banging on the door and I'm scared. Should I call my step mom and work and tell her about last night and about what he is doing or what? what should I do!?
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He's trying to bully you into being scared so you won't share what he did with step mom. I can't know to what extent he may go to harm you but regardless, the stress of wondering when he may make good on his threat to harm you is at the very least going to make it hard for you to focus and over time your studies would suffer. So I agree with everything Adviceman said. Tell her, tell school officials too. Because they are her blood sons, she may or may not believe you, thinking you're just jealous of them or acting out now because of your Dads death...lots of grieving doesnt happen at time of passing but some time after it comes out and can be evident in people not caring if they get in trouble, so basically getting into the wrong crowds and doing the wrong thing. She may not believe so I believe if you tell anyone at all, tell school counselors and keep telling them and asking them to do something on your behalf to protect you. You may be reading this long after step bro quit and took off but this kind of behavior shows who he is deep down inside at this point in life. There is more of that where what you saw, came from. Hopefully he'll mature as an adult but that doesnt help right now so even if this is a day or two after the event, it doesnt matter, he broke the rules, and he threatened you. Still tell school and Mom. If he continues to pick on you, you could tell the school that you are serious that this matter has you spooked, that you really don't want to go home and would rather not go out on the streets. And tell them if they can't intervene, to give you a number to the closest teen safe house for the next couple of days or however long it takes CPS to look into this. CPS must see evidence of something wrong before they take a young kid out of the house. They may have to make several visits before anything helpful to you is done about the situation but don't give up cus the squeaky wheel gets greased. Or in other words, the person who continually complains to everyone they meet and keeps it up 24/7 is eventually going to get officials to take action no matter how busy their case loads because frankly, someone is beginning to get on their nerves and the only way to stop your complaints is to solve your problem for you.
Since step Mom's not even a blood relative, you may want to stress being placed with a relative other than your Mom who doesnt want you anyways. That would be almost as bad. Maybe not a physically threatening environment as with the step bro but it would be an emotional one. If a grandparent is the only option as there are no aunts and uncles or even older cousins who are now adults, then even though they are older and it may not be long term, at least you should be able to get to your adult years and able to look after yourself.
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First: Even if you and your stepbrother are of the same sex you should not be sharing a bed. Depending on your age difference it may not be right for you two to be sharing a room either.
It was wrong for Van was wrong to sneak out of the house. Children under 18 should not leave the house without parental permission and never after parents have gone to bed. Parents need to know where their children are as they are legally responsible for them and can be help legally responsible for their actions. Van compounded this wrong by bringing someone into the house at that hour without permission , then having sex with her in a bed occupied by you even though it was also his bed.
You can do two things. Yes you should tell your stepmother and if school is still open you should tell a trusted teacher or a principle about your living conditions. Specifically that you must share a bed with your stepbrother. By law the they are required to notify the proper authorities and have Child Protective Services investigate. (CPS)
CPS can force your mother to take you out of that situation. They can also ask any another family member to take you in if there is no other resolution to the situation or you are in any danger from your stepbrother(s).
Also remember if you are ever afraid or in danger you can dial 911 and police will come to your home to keep you safe. You can also go to any Police or Fire Station and ask for help as they are safe havens for children.
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