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my parents think theres something wrong with me
My parents think theres something wrong with me and dont trust me to do anything they treat me like a 4 year old.I only live with my mom and stap dad.I dont like my real dad but t be honest i want to live with him at this point how do i tell that to my mom?ps sorry for the errors im really stresssed rn
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You didn't go into detail as to what they say is wrong with you. You also dont give examples of when they don't trust you so its hard to tell whats going on....whether they are being reasonable or whether they need to loosen up a bit.
Going to live with Dad is not going to end your problems, you'll just gain another set of them.
Sometimes, we get difficult to live with relatives to learn how to deal with such people, to gain some skills in handling people in a mature way where ultimately everyone is happy and has the freedom to make choices of their own. I can see this in what I learned with my parents and what my kids learned with us. I know its not an answer you want to hear but I could probably tell better if you can shed more light on your situation.
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It can be annoying that your parents treat you this way but trust me on this, they are doing it because they love you and they care for you even though they don't seem to. They are very worried about your well.I suggest you talk to them about how they treat you and tell them how you feel.
As for staying with your dad, well, I am going to leave that decision to you, but before you decide ; do you really want to live under hatred or would you rather have your mom care for you? I hope I helped.
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The first thing I would do is talk with your biological father and see if you can come and live with him. No sense making a fuss if there are reasons beyond his control that would not allow you to live with him.
Right now you live with your mom because she is the one the court awarded legal custody of you to. In most every divorce the courts will award custody of minor children to the mother. With teenage children it may be different as the teenager is able to speak for themselves and convince the court which parent they wish to live with.
IF your mother has legal custody of you then she has to voluntarily allow you to live with your father or he has to take her to court and sue for custody. Of course the easiest course of action is for mom to allow you to live with your father. The harder course is expensive and would require both mom and dad to hire lawyers to argue their case in court and allow a judge to make a decision. OF course the older you are the more weight you would have in the judge's decision on who should have custody of you.
Since you didn't give your age I must also tell you if your 16 close to 17 the lawyers will tell your parents not to bother with a custody case as by the time they get in front of a family court judge you will be close to 18 and custody will then shortly not be an issue. As in the eyes of the law once you reach the age of 18 you are no longer a child but a full fledge adult.
My advice is to talk to dad then follow his advice.
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