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My mother is a bipolar
My mother is a bipolar just like the subject says and I'm actually tired of her shouting at us whenever she feels like it then calm down like nothing happened like she don't mind us getting hurt emotionally because of what she does to us.
We told her that she may have bipolar disorder and it's probably better if she consults a specialist but she says no because it's like telling her she's crazy and won't listen to us and she gets mad us again and calm down then get mad at us it'd a tiring cycle and I'm starting to hate her...... sometimes I'm so sick of her getting angry randomly I sometimes think of killing her for peace sake... and shenever she gets angry at me furiously for petty reasons like the delivery man takes too long and she's hungry and she takes it out on me like I'm the delivery man... yells at me and tells me that she can kill me because she raised me... I really love to see her dying face when she does that to me. I bear a super big grudge on her i don't wanna call her my mother. I'm still studying I don't know what to do... I have a sister who is younger than me there's only the three of us.. I tried to understand her but I'm breaking down.. help me
Tell me what i should do... . I'm from the philippines
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In the US there is an agency who acts as advocates for children who may be abused by parents. The idea is not to get the parents in trouble but to protect the children and get the help for the adults that the parent needs. A parent wont listen to their own kids but it usually takes more incentive. In the case of CPS, child protection services, if they remove children from a home where they have documented proof of neglect or abuse, they will put the kids in foster care and let the parent know they can get the kids back if they go through treatment successfully. Thats usually the incentive for a parent to willingly want to get help. I don't know what agencys there are in your country. If your school has counselors or at least a school nurse, I'd start asking there. Or you could probably ask the leader/pastor of what ever religious group your family goes to, or even talk to your friends Moms asking if they could help you find out who/what agency to turn to for help.
If the verbal abuse is affecting your life, your studies, that should be enough to get someone to look into it on your behalf. the trick is to finding out who that contact person(s) is.
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