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I think my crush likes me or na
So, I'm in 7th grade and my crush is always staring at me but he's popular so he talks to other girls but lately he hasn't been flirting with them. Does that mean he likes me?
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ONe indication of interest is staring at the person whom one has interest in. He must find you attractive or he wouldn't be looking. Do you find yourself staring often at the guys you do not find cute or hot? Guys wont waste their time that way for same reason.
So he's interested. Its easier to talk to or flirt with people who really don't matter cus they arent the one you have interest in. So just because he has talked to others in the past means nothing.
He is most likely shy and nervouse about approaching you and messing things up, his mind going blank or stuttering or something wild and out of the blue like that. Yes, that happens, even with adults especially when you've found someone you really don't want to do something stupid and say the wrong thing or scare them away. So I would encourage you to smile at him and say hi if you arent already doing that. After a few days of that, walk up to him and ask him a question that he can't answer yes or no to or due to shyness, the convo may end there. You could ask him how he's doing in a certain class, what he thinks of a certain teacher and if it starts to feel awkward, to save this attempt to reach out to him, the best thing you can do is let him know you're just as nervous. And tell him you're having trouble thinking of things to say. You have stared at him probably as much as he's started at you so you figured it was time to talk and see if you both had any things in common.
If you admit to being nervous or scared, it makes you more human, just like him and he's more likely to begin to feel more comfortable and enjoy talking. At the end, let him know you enjoyed your little convo and would like to do so more often. Trade phone numbers, but please dont make texting your only way of communicating with him or the budding friendship can quickly go stale. Good luck!
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