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I have a date!
OK so we decided to go to the movies would dressing up be a give away or should I go casual so mom doesn't suspect anything?
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I guess it depends on what dressing up is for you. If you always wear tee and jeans and all of a sudden want to wear heels, stockings and a Sunday dress, yeah it would be an obvious difference from usual and would snag Moms attention, at least wanting to know why. And without a plausible explanation. THE more uncomfortable or guilty you act, the more suspicious she'd be the something is up even tho I don't see her guessing what.
Now if you recently got something pretty and new to your wardrobe, its natural for females to want to have somewhere to go to wear a new top or dress or shoes.
Although, let me tell you that teens your age tend to like to dress up, especially in ways to show off their new found curves. My girls all did it by raiding my closet (with permission) cus I had lots of cute dresses as I went out dancing often. Most girls go to stores and take lots of stuff into the dressing room where they and friends pose and take photos of themselves. So if you haven't done that sort of thing yet, its actually quite common, in case you were to start doing that.
It might work to get Mom in on the dressing up to go out part, 'as something teen girls do'. I can't see how your mother would put two and two together and equate dressing up with the two of you dating each other. Dress in an outfit and go ask Mom how you look. It'll work even better having your friend there too trying on some of your stuff. ANd both asking your Mom how you look. And let her know you're trying to decide what you both will wear when you go to the movies. Lots of girls dress up when away from school and you don't want to be caught out wearing just your regular clothes. Maybe just ask to borrow a necklace of hers or a pair of shoes if you like them and they might fit, you have to like it or dont ask to borrow sommething.
To be honest, the more often your Mom gets to see your girlfriend doing regular activities teens do, it'll be more believeable that you both are just friends.
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