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QUESTION???? Men, would you prefer a virgin female or a non-virgin female and why?
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
This is somewhat of an awkward question as it depends on circumstances to a degree.
I would be hesitant to take a girls virginity who has been saving it for Mr. Right if I'm not interested her in that way. If I was interested in her in that way then I would be very appreciative and want to make it a beautiful experience for her. If I were interested in her in that manner it wouldn't matter if she was a virgin for in today's world it is rare for a man to find his future bride to be a virgin.
For even the bride that are virgins they expect their husband to be experienced in the matters of sex to make their first time a wonderful experience. While I admire those women that have the fortitude to wait until they marry. I also think it is a double standard for a man to think his bride should be a virgin if he is not and that standard went out the window a long time ago.
Short answer to your question is. To me it doesn't matter for I believe in today's society both male and female are entitled to a sex life before marriage. since your question was nonspecific as to when should the female be a virgin a chose to answer in this manner. ]
It actually doesn't matter, what matters is that you love each other and if he is shallow enough to worry about that kind of things, he ain't worth it. If someone loves you it wouldn't matter to him that your a virgin or not.
Not am man but I felt like it had to be said. ]
I would prefer female whom I love and passionate about )) You will adore everything about her if you love her, virgin or non-virgin. I love someone who has dark circles, stretch marks on her belly from post-pregnancy and of course non-virgin. I can give away the most beautiful virgin woman on this earth for her. Why? Because one she is my BEST FRIEND secondly I am very PASSIONATE about her at all levels. I can share anything and everything with her without fearing that she would judge me and same goes for her. Hugging and kissing each other is not any less pleasurable than having sex. That is not to say that we are not physically attracted to each other. Physical and emotional chemistry comes first. But whether she is virgin or not is the last thing I would ever think about ))
What I'm trying to get to is that your question is irrelevant. You are approaching love from a wrong perspective. At the same time I am not at all trying to judge you with your question. As youngsters this question crosses our mind often, especially when you find someone who is a beautiful person from within and you are attracted to them and you wonder, but she is not virgin? The question is not coming from your heart. It is coming from the conditioned mind which has been hearing and taught that a being a virgin is noble thing and a criteria for love))
Good luck! )) ]
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