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College Bully?


Question Posted Thursday March 31 2016, 8:11 am

Hi,

There's a girl in my major who has a lot of classes with me. I use to talk to her because I thought she was a decent person, but after she kicked a girl out of her seat I stopped talking to her. It doesn't make any sense to me when someone comes in 15 minutes ahead of class to sit there and have another person come in to tell them to leave their seat. She's moody anyway and I didn't want to associate with that anymore. Sometimes she was nice and then sometimes she was mean, so I just said whatever and stopped interacting with her. Well in one of my classes she sits in front of me and she keeps turning around to annoy me. One time she said, how come everyone is drinking monster? And I looked around and it was just me and one other guy drinking it. Then she turns around to me and said you shouldn't drink that its not healthy. i said so? I just need to be awake right now. And then she said something about the taste of it and said i should drink redbull instead, so i told her, redbull is the same thing it's just a different brand. And then she said i should drink coffee and its like right there, so she pointed to the other building. And I told her, well the vending machine is right there, and pointed across the hall. She was annoyed with that and the professor came in so she just turned back around.

A couple of days ago I was not in a good mood because I was in an accident about a month ago and my whiplash was starting to hurt again, and not only that but some of the members in my group were not doing any work for the project. So I come into class and she says, you look mad. And I didn't want to get personal with her so I just said I'm normally like this, and she just sat there and watched me and then she goes, you should smile. And that set me off and I yelled at her and I said fuck you just because I don't want to interact with you doesn't mean anything damn!. I noticed some of the people in that class moved over to the other side of the class the next day.

I have no idea how I should handle this girl. I don't want to be around her at all and I want to tell her to leave me alone. I know she's a negative person and I don't want to associate with that at all, but the fact that I yelled at her made me look like a bad guy. I don't want to move seats because I still have other classes with her and if I do it'll seem like she won and she'll probably keep bothering me anyway.


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Razhie answered Thursday March 31 2016, 4:02 pm:
You should move seats.

Who the fuck cares if she thinks she 'won'? You are there to get an education, not battle with this bitch. You are not in high school anymore. Move away from her. She may keep bothering you, but it's also pretty damn likely she'll move on to another target.

You don't need to 'handle' her. You need to stay the hell away from her and keep your cool if she does speak to you. She brings out the worst in you. Stay away.

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