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Sex: I wanna convince my classmate
I wanna convince my classmate teenager so how do I convince her
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We've heard this same question on here often about
Convincing someone to have sex. So lets look at the definition: adjective
1.
persuading or assuring by argument or evidence
So now look at persuading:
to cause people to do or believe something, esp. by explaining why they should
Okay then, why should she have sex with you? YOu are a teen and teen boys are especially horny normally. The solution to take care of it, is to msaturbate. Teen girls if you're a girl, can get horny too. The solution is the same.
Most people are only going to be persuaded by a sales persons pitch if there is evidence that there is something good for them in the deal, that a product is more exceptional than all the other products on the market.
Now with gettng a girl to agree to sex with you, what is she gonna get out of it? Adults have sex for a couple reasons, one to take care of their desires to have sex, and the other is as an outpouring of the love they have for the other. I can tell you right now that the majority of females, even at a young age, know they want a guy to care about them, having feelings for them, like loving them and once they feel loved, they might want to have sex but some want to save virginity til marriage. It is not right to argue your case and mentally force a girl to give it up when inside she really doesnt want you. If you pretend that you care about her and trick her into having sex with you, then you can bet that she and others you 'use' sexually will spread the word around that you are a player, not serious and all the rest of females will avoid you like the plague. You'll create a bad reputation for yourself. It is much better to become a good friend for girls, take care of your needs yourself and wait until you are older and ready to be the kind of male who cares more about pleasing the female and her gratification in sex rather than seeking your own pleasure.
You see, the funny thing about doing sex that way, in the end, you are rewarded with a female who wants to please you in return and sex turns into a wonderful satisfying experience, much more so than just penis in vagina sex where the guy cums and the girl didn't get anything out of it cus he came fast and didn't work on her.
You might try studying books and videos to learn long before you're ready to have sex, on how to please a woman. For instance, most women don't have orgasms by intercourse, thats penis in vagina. Her clitorus is more on the outside. Even the G spot 2 inches in on the belly side of vagina doesnt get much stimulation from the penis so sex becomes hohum pretty quick if she doesnt cum too. IT also takes lots more time to get a women ready to cum than it takes a man. Would you be willing to finger her or use a toy on her for an hr or more before you finallly get to have intercourse? Are you concerned about her safety in not contracting an STD or getting pregnant. If those thoughts haven't crossed your mind, you're not ready yet. Use your young years as the time to do the studying on a womans body. If you can't find any good stuff even on the net, let me know and I'll get links for you.
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