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Having crush on a boy from school


Question Posted Sunday March 27 2016, 6:18 pm

so im girl , 3rd in high school and i really like one guy from my school ...he´s in 4th year..so he´s a year older than me....we dont know each other...i only see him during breaks in hallways sometimes...i dont know how to get his attention bc he´s always surronded by his friends..2 days before V-day i wrote him valentine message, saying that i like him but he probably doesnt know it was me who wrote it....i also send him friend request on fb and texted him but he hasnt accepted it nor responded to my text on fb..maybe he doesnt go on facebook anymore or accpet friend reuest from people he doesnt know :/....i dont know what to do ? :/...how should i get him know that i like him ?? i cant talk to him in person bc he is from higher grade so we pass each other only during breaks at school,he probably doesnt go on facebook...please help me what to do ??

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solidadvice4teens answered Monday March 28 2016, 11:40 pm:
There is a chance that he got the text and request but isn't interested in you or knows nothing about who you are. He may not have logged in either. Both are probable. It was not a good idea to just come out with liking him either.

That can put people aback not expecting it when you haven't introduced yourself even. You need to be mature about this and stop with notes, texts or anything not face to face. How can you expect to date someone if you can't even introduce yourself?

The fact he is a grade level higher doesn't matter at all. He's just a person like you and must be viewed by you as such. Just walk up to him and say "I'm so and so." Then say "I was wondering if you would like to join me and my friends for whatever group activity on whichever night. If he declines than you know he has no interest. If he doesn't talk to you after that so be it. You have a 50/50 shot but NONE if you don't talk to him and treat him like talking to anyone else.

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