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Ok so this happened recently my sister who is 3 years younger than I am walked in on me and saw me naked which to me being naked is normal and no big deal,so later after the initial shock of the encounter faded away I went to kind of say sorry to her for seeing me naked. She then said to me "You dont need to freak out over it you were just naked, you dont look bad either and frankly I thought you had a nice package too not overly big but nice and thick" should I feel like no big deal by her comments?
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I would say to take that as a compliment and no big deal. Apparently, she is as cool as you are about it,feeling naked is normal and nothing to freak out about.
Yes, sometimes teen siblings of the opposite sex become very shy and private and afraid to be seen nude and once hormones have hit, don't know how to act around each other when their body may react in a way their minds and hearts don't want to.
I still remember the look of a younger brother seeing me and sis modeling our new nightgowns from Mom at christmas. His eyes bugged out, must have seen nipples thru the fabric. After that, we both wore robes around the house in evenings...simply because it made us feel uncomfortable as many teens feel at that age.
Since it didn't bother your sis, you don't have to do anything about it. Just interact with her as you normally would as if it never happened. Cus if you start to act all weird about it, it could frustrate her and get her thinking that you are mad at her for something or strain your relationship. So if you're a close knit family, you don't want that to happen.
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Her commenting on your "package" is inappropriate in my opinion.
Since she is younger than you if you feel comfortable you can tell her that you do not want her commenting on your body anymore because it makes you feel uncomfortable since she is your sister.
If you don't want to address this again at this time which is totally understandable ,you can say this to her if it happens again.
Side note start locking the door when you are changing or go in the bathroom to change.
Your sister should be knocking the door but sometimes mistakes happen but I would take some extra steps to ensure this doesn't happen again.
The issue here is not that she saw you naked. ( even though this should not happen all the time) The issue for me is her comments on your private areas. It's a little much
I hope this helps
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