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Why do some females want to become really muscular, and chastise women who
would rather be slim and lean?
I'm a woman, and find the really muscular look very unattractive. I hate when men and women try to pressure me to do more weights or whatever, to look how they view is beautiful. It's dumb when they also call slimmer women "weak," when a slimmer woman can just have lean muscles. The really muscular looks is also unnatural, as it often requires steroids. Why is it a thing? It's so strange to me. Even Jillian Michaels is more buff than I'd like to be. I'd rather look like Bridget Malcolm, a vegan Victoria's Secret model.
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Why do some people think it's okay to shame and judge others for what they like to do to their own bodies, or what they want to eat, or what sort of bodies they find sexually attractive?
Shame and judgement like the sort you just did here.
I'm sorry if you've been hurt or insulted by others because of how you look, or how you want to look. Of course, that is never okay. No one should be pressuring you into diets, exercise or any appearance changes you don't want to make.
However, your question here is just as judgemental and inappropriate as any person who "chastise those who would rather be slim and lean."
Just because you don't understand why someone may want to live or look a certain way, doesn't mean it's okay to insult them with comments like "it's unattractive" or imply nasty judgements like "they must use steroids."
A woman's value is not defined by how much other people want to have sex with her or think she is pretty. Women are much more than that. Just because these women aren't the kind you find prettiest doesn't mean their choices or bodies are wrong or less worthy or respect.
Look at your own biases and casual judgements before you start complaining about everyone else's. That is what will help the most when dealing with others when they express bias or judgement towards your choices.
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