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How can I stop being jealous?!?!?!?!
My bf talks to girls sometimes and I get very jealous because I'm scared of losing him. He's stopped talking to a few because of this but I feel it's very unfair and selfish of me to let him do that. So how do I stop being jealous of these girls and trust him???? I've got major trust issues btw
I think it's because I think these girls are beautiful and I'm ugly. And they game (which is his favorite thing ever) and I cant stand it....,,,,,,, and they're close by and I'm all the way across the world long distanxe
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Has he ever given not to trust him?
I totally know where you're coming from..my ex was very touchy feely with other girls and I didn't appreciate that. That's one thing but his your boyfriend ever done or said anything to these girls that you know of? Think of it that way. Without trust in the relationship what do you have? Trust him. If you're worried talk to him but don't make him stop being friends with other girls. You are with him. He chose you for a reason! Just enjoy being together.
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I could tell you to just stop being jealous but that won't work. Everyone has a little twinge of jealousy now and then.
You are in a long distance relationship. I will be brutally honest and tell you that these relationships don't usually work out. They really don't, especially if you are a teen.
You both need to be going out to school functions and being a part of groups of friends of both sexes. Teens flirt. They like to hang out & do things.They need to date people.
I advise you to do what you don't want to do & find someone closer to where you are. He needs to do the same. You do not have to stop being friends. You may one day move closer together &
turn that friendship into something more. Right now though you need to be living your life, because it is short.
If you want to stay together via the internet that is your choice of course. I wish you luck. I'm just afraid jealousy is always going to interfere in this relationship. Its so easy to lie & make things up on the internet.
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