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i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called the bank and boy was she extra happy...I can feel her just smiling in the background....wth...should I ask her what's up or just leave it alone? my bro thinks she is prolly bi and has a crush on me....she is younger than me I do know that much.....and she comes off as freaky.....what do u all think is she just being friendly or does she like me like? thanks
SO should I give her my number or wait to see if she's gonna ask me for mine....im not an outdoorsy person but I wouldn't mind chillin with her
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In my personal opinion... I think she has a thing for you. She wouldn't even bother getting irritated when you don't talk to her if she didn't... She also probably wouldn't even notice you considering its a bank, but its pretty obvious she looks forward to you coming in. If you're interested in her then you should go for it... personally I think its a little weird that she gets upset when you don't talk to her especially when she doesn't really know you, but I mean whatever if she doesn't seem weird to you, you should go for it.
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While things may have changed since I worked in a bank as a teller. I am going to go with the idea that she is just being friendly. When I worked in a bank there were firm policies in place concerning non-fraternization between employees and customers and even employees themselves.
These policies were in place to insure the security of the bank's funds. We were not allowed to have accounts in our own bank. Alliances were made for us with a bank nearby where we could have bank accounts and cash our checks.
Given how tightly the banks are watched I would say not much has changed since then. I was once in a position similar to you where one of our customers a very pretty young lady would only deal with me. One day I met her outside the bank and had to tell her I could not date her as long as I worked for the bank and she was a customer. The very next day she closed her account.
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