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Im in school, stepped out side of my classroom for a brief moment and i was very focussed on where i was headed too, i was casually listening to my music and all of a sudden i hear "sppphhh" like someone called me. i go up the stairs and look back too see, a boy looking at me blankly and then winks at me. I Never met him but seen him around my school, i smile amd look down shyly. And i look back again at him and he has the biggest grin looking at me , i give a bigger flirty smile. The eye contact was crazy it didnt break, sucks we didnt stop or say anything, kinda wanna see him sometime again but how will this turn out, pointless i hope not.
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If he did that, then he is visually attracted to you. Can't go as far as saying he likes you because neither of you know anything about each other but that can be remedied if both of you like what you see. It all starts with attraction for both females and males.
The unfortunate thing for young females is that at a young age, it's hard to tell when a guys attraction is purely one way track, only sexual, or is he the kind of guy looking for a girl who can be a close or best friend as well as having the romance with her.
I know how fun and great that feeling is when a guy looks at you like this...and it continues thru life no matter how old you are. I am in my 50s and still there are guys that look at me appreciatively and interested until they discover I am married. But it still feels good. tHE only way you can know if something more can happen from this encounter is that next time you see him somewhere around school, boldly walk up and say, "Hi, can I talk to you a minute?" If he's with other people, you don't need others listening in. So when you can talk to him alone, just rely on using the little you know of him and that encounter and the questions it raised in you, in essense...use the truth to say something to him. Bring it all up as a starting point for your convo. You will use your own words but heres some examples of what to say. No matter how awkward it feels, often the more awkward and scary it is to speak up and admit something, the other person will admire you for having the guts to do so rather than think you are a weirdo.
"Hi. I don't see you often but I remember the time you called out to get my attention in a hallways and smiled at me. So, I've been thinking about that, wondering why you did that. I guess I am going out on a limb here asking, but do you flirt with everybody like that, or were you specifically wanting to get my attention, cus you got it, especially since we don't know each other so it stood out in my mind. Were you just doing that for fun or hoping to talk and maybe become friends cus I regret that I didn't take the time to chat with you at least a little. So I apologize now if you had wanted to talk...but I'm here now and we can trade names and numbers and keep in touch if you like.
That might be too wordy or not sound like you so just basically bring up that you remember him going psst to get your attention but you regret not having time the time right then to talk and you want to make up for it now.
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