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I think I might be gay
So I've been bisexual for the past 6 yrs, and I've always liked everything abouyy guys, but the past year its been really hard for a guy to be pleasing. Im attracted to guys, like I can kiss, hold hands, make out and be 100 percent attracted, but sexually guys aren't appealing or pleasing. I have to really concentrate to be satisfied. Am I gay? Or is this just a teenage phase?
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While it would help if I knew your age I can say with much certainty you are not gay. You may be bisexual or depending on your age you may be like most young people still discovering your true sexuality.
Why I can say with certainty that you are not gay is the fact that doctors and scientist now feel that gay people are born gay. That being Gay is not a learned trait but in one's DNA. Bisexuality on the other hand they are not as sure about.
Young people going through puberty will have some form of a gay sexual experience. It is part of the learning experience of what sex is, what your sexuality is and how to have sex. Even though it is with the same sex it is not truly gay sex for it is experimentation and learning.
Those people who are truly gay or lesbian have known this from a very early age. some report knowing they were different from as early as 3 or 4 years of age. If you are having problems with the opposite sex there is another reason for this but not because you suddenly developed into a gay or lesbian person.
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