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What if a boy asks you out?
This not I am quite into that I have been dying to be asked out by just did. All my friends think he is a jerk. But I kinda like him. What do I do?😖
-Brooklyn💖💖
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Well if all your friends think hes a jerk. think first about WHY they think that way.....did he do something to them? or does he do bad things?? sometimes your closest girlfriends can see what you cant because your blinded by feelings and their not. Sometimes they can see someone for who they really are and because their your friends and (usually) just want whats best for you then you should take what their saying into consideration. They were in your life before him and they'll be there after him to pick up the pieces when he hurts you and maybe their trying to warn you ahead of time.
So be guarded, go ahead and give him a chance if you want to, but just know that you were warned ahead of time so whatever you get yourself into is on you and no one else. This is what comes with the territory when dating in adult life so just make sure your heart is ready to deal with that should things go downhill.
Now, on the flip side they may just be saying some of these things because their afraid they'll lose you or once your with him, you wont hang out with them anymore ever.
This is another part of life your going to have to learn to deal with, youll have to learn to make time for your friends still as well as your boyfriend. (should he become that)
Remember that you cant wrap your whole life up in guys ok. You still will ALWAYS need your best girls because they'll be the ones that will be there for you after things go down and hes long gone, so you need to make sure you treat them with just as much importance as your man. The saying "all you need is your man" could not be more wrong. You still need to do things that feed your soul, make you happy, and content in life LIKE going places and doing fun things with your friends. If this is their fear then you need to talk to them about it and let them know that they will never lose you even if you have a man.
Theres a special connection that all females (who are real friends) have with each other that males will never understand and you still will need those connections no matter what.
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good luck, youll be fine
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