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Mah Friends are kinda annoying.....
I'm a 7th grade girl who is constantly annoyed by her friends. They're REALLY weird and can hurt my feelings a lot of the time. I thought they would be really great friends when I moved here but now they just get on my nerves. In my old house I had soooo many good friends and now I'm starting to get more but I can't get away from my annoying friends without them making a huge scene!
What should I do???
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Question is, do you want to be able to stay away from them. If its just that you feel annoyed with their behavior but individually, there are things you still like about each of them, then abandoning them is not the answer.
there's a saying that goes: How do you eat an elephant? One small bite at a time.
What I am trying to say is that perhaps you'd find it easier to be able to handle them one at a time. Be honest and let them know you are going through something emotionally and for the time being can't handle hanging with larger groups all at once. (They don't have to know they are the cause of it as it could actually be in part the hormones of puberty still affecting your emotions and making you much more easily irritated.)
Let them know as a group that you are only going to spend time with one of them at a time and each will get their turn. Thats it, plain and simple. If any one of them doesnt care about you enough to care about you and your request, then you've done your best, walk away from them as a friend and don't associate with them.
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