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Head kiss
21/f
Met a guy in tinder around September hung out with him twice and slept with him both times. Just moved to the area we were both getting out of serious relationships and both didn't want anything serious....he told me he didn't want to cross lines anymore and just be friends. I have feelings for this guy but am accepting all he wants to be his friends. Saw him last night and hung out strictly as friends and before I left he gave me a side hug and kissed my head....what does this mean??? Am I over thinking it....
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Guess what...females more often have a tendency to fall for a guy they are having sex with simply because females are basically made up that way, we are in touch with our feelings and not afraid to voice them. Something intimate like the sex act is most likely going to cause a female to fall for a guy eventually.
Guys surprisingly are not made the same way though most women think they must be just like us when it comes to sex, and our feelings and dating and relationships. Nope...not at all. If you could find some time to start to study what males are all about, you'd know that sex is not what makes a guy fall in love with a woman. You and I both don't really know this guy. So how can we know if his gestures mean anything specific at all. guessing and wondering and asking anyone but the person you have questions about is not going to get you the true answer.Maybe he is an affectionate guy and not afraid of showing he cares about someone. A kiss on the head is not a romantic gesture, more like a friend or brother, maybe he's like that with the female members of his family. I can see a guy kissing his grandma that way or sister. But you don't know if this is how he is naturally with everyone or if he is considering you a very close friend. I wouldn't wonder too much about just one little act. It it the consistant actions of a person and the type of actions toward you over time that will tell you more. If you are hoping to accidently bump into a guy who might end up becoming your life mate, then you need to look for guys who are ready for that kind of commitment. Guys at your age or even older 20s aren't usually ready to marry yet or commit to living the rest of their life with one female married or not. If you are wanting a guy who can be a romantic interest just for a season, just a social dating interest without any thought of the future, then just about any guy will do, including friends and friends with benefits. Guys can do FOB way better than females for the reason I mentioned earlier. If this is something you can be content with, then keep up the relationship. If you want to open up your options, start seeing several guys at the same time. As long as you let them all know you are not dating to make a commitment yet but doing so to discover which guy is a better fit for you and when you've decided and he feels the same, then is when you will date only the one, but not until then. Men actually understand this and are okay with it more so than women. I did just that when I was on a dating site where I found my 2nd husband. You may not have an idea yet of what you want. You are young enough with plenty of dating of different guys left to do before you can make a well informed decision as to who is the one you'll end up with for life.
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