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do i like him or does he like me?
Well it all started when we were in PE class I was sitting on a stack of chairs and there was another stack that was empty and by the stack was this boy lets call him Michael well To not fall we have to hold on the middle stack so I was about to fall and I put my hand there to get balance and I did it again but this time my hand met someone else and I noticed it was Michael so I saw him turn red and I did also but I burned up a little I just muttered sorry to him and like when that happened his gaze and mine were held for 30 seconds but I was the first one to look away and it happened again just that our eyes met only for 10 seconds I told my guy friend and he told me that if I was burning up when Michael's and my gaze met than that means that I liked him so plz..................... help me I need to know if I like him or if he likes me I'm just so confused
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Hon, when we are young and just starting to notice the other sex in a good way, a romantic way, usually just before or at puberty, it is normal for us to find ourselves flustered when near some people of the opposite sex and not with others.
Best way I can describe from my own experiences is that when I felt a certain feeling of excitement around one but not the other, one was more likely a possible romantic interest while the other was only a likely friend. Just liking the feeling you get when around a guy who makes you feel this way, does not mean that you like the whole person, their personality, looks and character, it only means that your body is subconsciously reacting to him as our bodies will do with interest or sexual responses too, like for a girl, feeling your heart or stomach doing flips, heart rate picking up, that wanting to touch but also afraid to touch the person, and feeling tingly and sometimes a gal can get wet in her private parts, a normal body action meaning that what you see sent a message to your brain to self lubricate for sex but it doesnt mean you should have sex, same as each time a boy has an erection, he shouldn't be having sex. We now learn how to control those bodily responses and only use them when appropriate and only with the one person with whom we have a love relationship and of course are old enough to handle the responsibilites of birth control, etc...
I can't tell you that you will like him for certain if you get a chance to spend any time getting to know him better or if he will feel the same. Right now, you both are embarassed by the feelings you are having so I can't say either of you are ready to approach and just talk and befriend each other, but thats where you should start, and see where it goes. If either of you decide you liked each other enough to have those feelings, but really don't have anything in common as friends, then don't stay together as friends. If you both hit it off, then if allowed to date at your age, move on to that.
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