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getting back with my ex
So i broke up with my boyfriend because we're both 14 and he was kinda sex crazy, we never had sex but he talked about it a lot. He told me he would never force me into anything and he never did but there came a time where we fought a lot and i felt pressured into that kind of stuff. So i broke up with him and it felt good to do but he stills texts me apologizing and it's been about a month. All his friends tell me he's always sad and he tells me that he wants me now and he's changed and the truth is i kind of miss him and i think maybe it could work but then again he hurt me. so idk what to do??
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In all honesty you should not be worrying about being in a relationship at your age anyhow, there's so much more to being young that you will miss out on by focusing on the needs of someone else, you have all the time in the world to date but right now may not be the time. you need to focus on yourself and not on sex or anything of that nature because once you lose your virginity it's gone and to lose it to someone who you probably won't even remember in a couple years would be silly, take it from me and no I'm not just saying this because your just 14 I'm saying in general, I'm not old I'm just 23 but I've seen a lot and there's things I wish I could take back or have a redo but we can't..... once it's done it's done,
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Well this is all a learning experience for you, your both young and still learning how to date. Your learning what you want and dont want in a partner but right now alot of high school relationships dont last long and thats ok.
If you really miss him and he misses you then i dont see a reason why you cant talk to him, tell him that he really hurt you, and if he wants the chance to prove himself then let him try. Make sure to set boundaries, be clear, and let him know that you will brake up as soon as those are crossed and there WONT be a second chance the next time.
Thats what i would do if we really both cared for each other and hes still hitting me up.
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