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Finding a man
I need a man should I go to a gay bar to find him yes or no?
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Are you a man.
If you are an adult gay man, who would like to meet other adult gay men, then sure, gay bars are decent place to go look.
If you are anything other than an adult gay man, maybe not the best place to look for men who will be into you.
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im sorry wait....you "need" to find a man?? why do you use the word need? Are you not ok enough with yourself that you need to be in a relationship so that you can focus on someone else all the time instead of yourself?
Understand this ok. If your ok with yourself, then your ok with being alone for a while without feeling like you NEED to rush into a relationship with someone. If your feeling this way then you should probably focus on working on yourself so that when you DO find a man, youll be putting the BEST version of yourself out there for them to see. By this i mean NOT bringing along the baggage and hurt from the last relationship and putting THOSE feelings or insecurities on them because thats not fair to someone whos a complete stranger. see what im getting at?
You want to present a HEALTHY, happy version of you. and you want THEM to do the same in return.....
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good luck
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