|
Why do man friend flirts?
Hello, if a bloke flirts with you, that means he's only flirting with you or is there anything behind it? Thanks
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Some people flirt only with one person they are attracted to. Others learn that flirting is fun and being outgoing personalities, they will flirt with everyone. What you need to do is observe the man enough to see if this is how he treats everyone or if it is only you.
If it was a random one time flirt in public and neither of you know each others names or have a way to contact, most likely he wasn't really all that serious about you. Love at first sight does happen but very rarely. For men, its more likely its lust at first sight. And while they may never seriously have an affair while married or in a committed relationship, they do enjoy at least the flirting cus its harmless, and its fun. I have flirted with guys I am not serious about being with, heck married couples often have the individuals flirting with the partners of close friends who know them well enough to enjoy the compliment but know to not take them seriously.
If a guy is flirting, he may be hoping you will flirt back if equally attracted to his looks. this means, it is up to you to decide whether to say anything back, introduce yourself, etc. Otherwise, with a strange person or even a co worker whom you only know one side of from work, you really can't know if he just likes flirting with you compared to other cus of your reactions that are rewarding to him, or that he is serious. Only way to find out is to start talking to the guy if you are even remotely interested in his looks. Step two is talking enough to decide if you find some things you like about him enough to want to learn more thru dating, or find he's not interesting at all, boring, or too agressive and seems focused on nothing but sexual talk. Steer clear unless you're looking for just a sex partner cus thats all a flirter like that will be.
]
As an outsider it's hard to tell. Maybe you should just ask him flat out or maybe ask him out on a date. Whatever happens happens.
Peace & Love,
Advice Mistress
]
More Questions: |