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Lesbian Thoughts
I'm a 16 year old female. Ever since I was younger id always have thoughts of being with a girl. I would really like to experiment but I don't know how I'd be able to? I don't know any girls that are lesbians :(
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Im not lesbian, nor do i ever REALLY wonder what it would be like to be with another female in that way but i have had other females that wanted to be with me in that way and a sister in law, brother in law, and cousin that are gay so we talk alot about feelings and thoughts so maybe i can at least give you something to chew on thoughts wise here.
I would like to say that i agree with the other poster, your thoughts are not dirty or wrong, your just thinking of all the possibilities, your hormones are raging and all over the place right now as well so nothing really is out of the realm of what you'd be willing to try right now.
Can i ask, when you say you were thinking about what it was like to be with a female, do you mean that you have been thinking about it since you learned about couples? and relationships? or just always, and then never saw males as an option?
I have friends that turned out not to be gay and actually HAD relationships with other females where they even went so far as to move in with them and build a life with the person and often times there was alot of emotions involved that ruled the relationships more so then with the opposite sex. (idk if it was just their personalities or not)
Have you considered buying a toy to meet your needs if you cant find anyone right now? ((im not trying to discourage you from experimenting because i AM an open minded person, just trying to give you options))
What you might do is go onto a forum or bixsexual dating website and talk to people who would open minded that you could talk to on there.
good luck
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The thoughts you are having are nothing to be ashamed of or make you think you have lesbian tendencies. Every teenager going through puberty wonders what it might be like to have some type of sexual contact with the same sex. It is normal, it is part of learning about your sexuality. It does not mean your Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual.
Looking back on my own teenage years guys had circle jerks. Some of us had one on ones where we experimented which in a way helped us when we moved on to dating and finally having sex with a partner of the opposite sex.
In college a lot of girls I knew were thought to be Lesbians for they were more prone to be having sex with another girl. Later we became aware it was more out of necessity than any other reason. Roommates were prone to have sex with each other because it was available. There were more women on campus then me. It was safer you don't get pregnant having sex with another women. Finally it provided the needed relief from sexual tension.
After graduation most all of these women never had sex with another woman again.
As for finding another girl to experiment with. Your best friend probably has the same thoughts. I know girls talk about sex just the way boys do. The next time you and a friend are having that type of conversation you could bring up a question about people of the same sex having sex. Maybe ask a question about what happens in a circle jerk and then gently steer the question around to questions on women having sex together.
There are even television programs on that have themes with young girls experimenting with same sex. You could talk about if anyone had seen the program and their thoughts. These programs are mostly on cable but some are on broadcast networks.
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