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ex bf on new years
My ex bf and i are seeing each other for almost two years on a monthly basis and yes we do have sex we use to speak almst everyday but then thmmgs just suddenly change so we dnt speak so much anymore anywayz i saw him 3 weeks ago i havent heard from him since sunday so i textd hm tuesday and told him about a movie he musnt forget to download for me coz my pc is broken he read it but ddnt reply i texd him new year eve again he ddnt read or reply i thnk he just deleted it so when it came to new year i decided to phone him bt then asked if he got my text and he said yes he ignored it on purpose and then i said ok happy new year..he ddnt even wish me and stuff..what does that mean? Am i right when i say he wants nothing to do with anymore i dnt knw what i did wrong..he probably move on long ago hey? I found myself crying so much on new year it really suck :'(
I dont knw what to do or think,i havent heard from him since..please help ..was that hs way of tlng me he ignored my msg on purpose to leave hm alone,he moved on and wants nothing to do with me anymre..whether or not its true do u think i will hear from him again,i decided to rather stay away
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Hi. My guess would be that he has either decided to move on or is possibly seeing someone else so has decided to just push you aside because of this. I think the best thing you can do is just leave him to it and move on. The problem with you seeing and sleeping with your ex is that you will find it hard to move on because your feelings will be focused entirely on him. It seems from the way you speak that you do have some feelings for him whereas I would guess that his being with you and the erratic way he kept in touch was simply just a matter of him having someone there to fill the void while no one else is there (someone to be with and have sex with without the official attachment of being together). Now he seems to have decided he no longer needs that for whatever reason that might be. The best thing you can do for yourself at this point is to start fresh for yourself. It might take time but know that it will be his loss at the end of the day. I think more importantly it shows a lack of respect towards you from him and that is something no person should have to tolerate especially since you have not really done anything wrong at all and he seems to have just been really nasty towards you. Don't let anyone walk all over you in this way - you don't deserve that nor should you have to put up with it from anyone.
You may hear from him at some point down the line, this is generally the way things work in a situation like this and if you do it will be up to you on what you wish to do but at this point he seems to have shown you nothing but contempt and disrespect and if he does come crawling back at some point you'll need to ask yourself if his reasons for doing so are genuine or if he is simply only doing so because he thinks it will pass the time until he does the same thing to you again and cut you loose when he feels like it for whatever reason that might be.
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