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I need advice
My ex bf and i are seeing each other for almst two years now i saw him 3 weeks ago havent heard from him since sunday so i texted him tuesday and told him about a movie that the msnt forget to get he read it but ddnt reply i then texted hm before new years to he ddnt read it or reply i thnk he deleted it..when it striked new yearz i phone him and then asked if he got my text and he told me yes he ignored it on purpose and then i said ok and wished him happy new year he didnt even wish me.. what does it mean,am i right when i say he wants nothing to do with me anymore he probably moved on,I found myself crying so much on new year it really sucked :'(
I dont knw what to do or think,was hm tlng me that hs way of saying leave me alone its done and over i moved on want nthng to do with u anymre..iv decided to rather stay away
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The thing is sweetie, you have to learn to create your OWN happiness before you can try to put your happiness in someone else hands. Even a potential life partner.
You will find yourself very disappointed in life if your always expecting someone else to give you the happiness you really truly want. Its also not fair of you to think that other people should just KNOW what your soul needs as a person to be happy and feel fulfilled in life.
People will come and go through out your life, some will stay longer then others. We're all on our own sort of "life path" and hes clearly off in his own world, and not thinking of others at least right now and thats a sign that hes meant for someone else. He obviously has more learning to do about how to treat others and you dont want to be there during his first "trial runs" at attempting to learn this stuff because you will only end up getting hurt in the process. What you want is someone who is further ahead with their life skills and communication so that this kinda stuff wont happen.
You may not see it right now but theres someone else out there for you and you probably just havent met them yet. The sooner you move on from this guy and work on yourself, your own happiness, and being the best version of yourself that you can be, the sooner youll attract the right kind of people and then eventually the right kind of guy.
youll be ok ; ) good luck
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With a 2 yr relationship, if his feelings changed or he met someone he feels is a better fit for him, it is more often that a guy will not be mature and just come out and gently explain his feelings so you know its over. Generally guys feel most females are going to cry or become hysterical and that is something that makes them uncomfortable having to cause or at least witness. In truth I can't blame guys cus more women than not will react this way. Very few will accept the news though hurt by it without all the dramatics. So unfortunately you had a guy there who decided to just stop responding and hoping you got the hint. So in your next relationship, you may want to add to the list, looking for a guy who is good at communicating, talking and not leaving things unsaid, thoughtful of others feelings and a heck of a lot more mature.
It hurts to be rejected, I know, been there done that.I also know that for special occasions I like to have someone special with me. Birthdays and holidays but for some reason New years is even more significant, marking a new year and new hopes and plans and to have your expectations that he might be there with you for New Years must be an extra blow. But time will heal dear and he was definitely not right for you if he could treat you that way. When a man truly is in love with you , he would never want to say or do anything that hurts you or brings you to tears or makes you upset because like with my husband, if I am hurt he hurts too.
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