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i still love my ex-boyfriends,but he like someone else...what should i do?


Question Posted Thursday December 31 2015, 8:48 am

i'm not easy to fall in love but when i do i can't move on...i love my ex but he already love someone else...well he's a player he also smoking even tough he's in 7grade he say it's was natural for manado people but when we in realation ship i even didn't know he's smoking well i still love him tough...what should i do???????i love him so much

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missundersmock answered Friday January 1 2016, 11:12 pm:
Well, your still young from what i hear and it sounds like you already know what your supposed to do and because your letting your emotions get in the way, your ignoring your better judgement right now.

Listen, theres one thing in life thats going to fuck you up every. single. time. which is letting your emotions rule you. Your sitting here telling us things you already know your not happy with in a partner and yet you still want to put yourself through that. why would you do that to yourself? is he really worth all this? there are questions you need to be asking yourself.

Be logical, be rational. Once you do, youll know the answer.

I dont think you love him, i think you love the IDEA of being in love with him and what things "could" be like, and that isnt reality. what IS reality is what your seeing him do and say RIGHT now and thats the best your going to get unless you either say something to him about it or walk away and find someone who treats you the way you want to be treated.....

your life is what you make it, and so far this is the point your at. Step back and look at your life right now, look at how you got to this point, and think about "is this really a good idea?", "is this person really good for me?" "is he worth it?"

take some time, think it over.

good luck ; )

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