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Getting felt up & doing the motion of sex w/ clothes on a sin?
I've been dating this guy for almost ) months now, we met at church and we both said that we would wait and have sex for marriage. He is my first real boyfriend and we are both seniors in high school. As we started dating we began to make out a lot, soon it turned into him putting his penis in my vagina and vice versa but we both still had our clothes on. One day he began to put his hands toward my bra while we were making out, it has now gotten to the point where my bra is off and he kisses my boobs. He make sures and asks me if it's okay if he does it. I tell him that it's weird cause no other person has touched me there expect a doctor, parents or me. He says it's fine cause I haven't gotten used to it yet and we aren't going to have sex. I'm starting to think tnat all of this is immoral to what God says in the bible. So is all of this a sin?
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I think the question here is not whether or not there is a line but if you have you crossed it. I do not know for certain but I would suggest that thisbehaviour is not healthy and does not demonstrate a fruitful relationship with God. I wouldn't go insofar as to say it is Asian as only God can say that. I encourage you to read the Ten Commandments and to pray about it. I would also caution that the Bible does suggest that we should not covet sex until marriage. Take heed to the cautions of the Bible but recognize that no human is able to tell you what you can or cannot do and if this is morally a sin. Be cautious that what you do ought to be favorsblein the sights of the Lord. I hope that this find you well. Amen
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This is the type of question that if you ask it of 10 different people you will get 10 different answers. In today's age of morality it is not considered as a sin and I do not consider making out a sin
sexual tension and frustration is bad for your physical and mental health just as any other stress or frustration is. Fortunately with sexual tension there are outlets short of intercourse for it. There is making out, masturbation and mutual masturbation all of which is not considered a sin by any religious group.
One thing that does concern me is you wrote; "soon it turned into him putting his penis in my vagina." If this is actually what happened then you have experienced sexual intercourse and are no longer a virgin. Once a penis penetrates a vagina, virginity is lost for both partners if both are virgins. Fingering is different and has nothing to do with virginity.
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