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I always think about my crush while masterbateing what should I do????
We break up 15 October he is the one asked but I still love him(I'm crazy about him I wish we can back up......after that I fall in love again but my BFF take him away from me... ->_<- I want to cry.......what should I do?
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Some people need a person or an image or face to focus on in their minds to help in masturbation. This is especially true more often for men than women although females do the same, just don't realize it. As for thinking about a crush or an ex one isn't over yet, thats natural, especially if you haven't healed yet. In time, when you meet a new love who is so much more and better than you could have ever imagined meeting, then the ex will pale in comparison and you no longer will find a need to think that person when masturbating. The reason this is so normal is that the mind is actually our most important sex organ. Its those memories of a person or even a sexy episode on a tv show or in a romance story that we think about as we masturbate that gets us excited more easily, the kind of excitement in some cases that is just as special as having a lover in your arms cus your mind is now contributing that enjoyment. Some people I have heard, even with men, can't masturbate to photos or porn because its not a person they really know or at least they have a preferance for thinking of their sweetie or a past one or even some random live female they see at Starbucks or whereever regularly whose image they focus on when they masturbate cus it helps. Its all normal. Just keep on enjoying it, theres nothing you need to do.
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