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a crush since forever
I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class, but he is so sweet and nice that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He is always hanging around with this one group of girls, but he would never date any of them, so I know that's not an issue. The problem is that he's always with them. I get along well with all of them, a couple are even sort of my friends, but it would be awkward for me to just join their group when they are talking or whatever. I have in the past, like if they are in my class and my regular friends aren't but its just a little awkward...anyways yeah I feel too awkward to get closer to him that way.
He jokes around a lot, and when we are in a small group of people together, he sometimes teases me more than the other people in the group. In class the other day, he was rolling around the classroom(we have chairs with wheels) and he came to talk to me. He has done similar things in the past.
I guess what I want to know is: do I have any chance with him? and how do I got about getting that chance?
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Hi,
I think that there is nothing to lose by trying to get with him and yes I do believe that you have a chance with him, maybe he's also a little shy to approach you, too. You said that he tries to talk to you sometimes, don't wait for him to come to you again. When you see him by himself, just roll over to him with your chair and talk to him and get to know him more and let him get to know you more. Also, you should also try to ask one of the two groups of friends that you have common with him to all hang out one day, it's not weird, trust me. Don't be scared, just go up to him whenever you see him alone and just start ask him what's up and if you see a group of people, who you know, like the girls, with him and they all look like they're just opened to having a conversation with anyone, just go up and say hey guys what's up how was your weekend or what's up.
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