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Should I look for a Sugar Daddy even though I really don't want to?
I feel like I'm in a really bad situation. I'm currently in 5k of debt at 21 after an ex ruined my credit. I also have 7k of student loans out and am supposed to be continuing school in January in another city. I just found out my cosigner got denied on the further loans it would take to continue college and now I'm stuck even though I have two scholarships and financial aid, they won't pay my entire tuition with dorm.
I absolutely have to move in January, I don't have a choice because I can't continue living where I live now. None of the rest of my family is in a good enough financial situation to cosign or help me out.
I can pay my school in monthly payment plans so I looked at getting a full-time job while being a full-time student, but I just don't think I can make it work. I still think my bills would be too high and I would be insanely stressed out.
In the past I tried looking for a Sugar Daddy (which I know is sex work) but the area I lived in just turned up a bunch of idiots and losers. None who were financially stable enough to actually be a real SD. One of them wound up harassing me for an entire year and at that point I swore I wouldn't do it again.
Now I'm rethinking things. I'm attractive, young and smart and I'll be moving to a bigger city. I just don't see another way to make ends meet right now as the average wage for a full-time job is just not enough without a college experience to support myself and I come from a lower class family who can't help me.
I especially feel horrible because I just got into a serious relationship a month ago and I love him, but if I have to resort to being a sugar baby I'd rather break up with him than put him through that.
I'm so scared. I don't know what to do. I feel like this is my last resort and if it fails and I wind up in 12k of debt, no college education and no where to live, I'd rather just kill myself.
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