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I got a personal question
Hello me and my ex had sex on November 2 and 6th than i didn't get my period on the 19th of November and now I'm pregnant and he is saying that his doctor told him he as a narrow urethra but that was 3 weeks later now he's saying it not his when I know it is he was the only one I did it with.
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If your ex ejaculated in your vagina...and it was during your fertile period den you are pregnant and he is responsible... But d fertility depends on your cycle...if your cycle is 28days then you ovulated on day 14th midway of your cycle
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I'm guessing your question is what to do about this. If you are sure you are pregnant. Have taken a home pregnancy test as well as had a doctor verify by examination that you are pregnant then this is what you must do.
You boyfriend is being an asshole. If you do not plan on having an abortion or giving the child up for adoption then you need to see a Lawyer NOW.
There are several reasons why you need to see a lawyer now. First and foremost is to establish by legal means that your boyfriend is the father. I don't doubt you but the law needs verification and that takes a paternity test.
Your lawyer can start the needed legal paperwork for a court ordered paternity test. In some states his lawyer might be able to delay this test until after the baby is born. This is something to discuss with your lawyer. In the end though he will be ordered to give a DNA sample.
Once paternity is established he is responsible for the wellbeing of this child until it reaches the age of 18. He will be ordered to pay child support, maintain health insurance for the child as well as life insurance in an amount sufficient to cover what he would pay in child support. Some states even require his wages be garnished to insure prompt payment of these obligations to the court who in turn see that you and the insurances are paid .
DO NOT take his word at any time that he will do right by you or the child. He has shown his true colors by saying he can't be the father's child because of a small urethra. If he can urinate then semen can pass; it is that simple.
If you have medical evidence you are pregnant go directly to a Lawyer who practices Family Law. If you do not have the medical evidence see a GYN for the medical test then go to a Lawyer. Do not worry if you can't afford one. The lawyer will either work out a payment system with you or refer you to a court appointed lawyer.
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So, he's trying to avoid responsibility?
I'm sorry that is happening, it makes him an asshole, but it's not so unusual for men to try and find a way to deny paternity when they freak out.
Even if he does have a narrow uretha, that doesn't mean he's not capable of fathering a child. You know he has. Just be clear and consistent and tell him not to behave like an ass. You both had sex, you both took this risk, and now you are both pregnant.
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Ok so whats the question here?.....
So far we know that you had sex with someone that possibly lies and then is now trying to get out of taking personal accountability.
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