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NBSB : "No Boyfriend Since Birth"
Why does anyone like me in romantic way?
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I know nothing about you like age, situation, lack of being able to observe you to see any possible traits that don't tend to attract people, perhaps even your location is a factor.
I know an adult woman who lives in a tiny town in the mountains, she's lonely and there are no available single males in her area because it is remote.
I cant really give you a satisfactory answer but heres a few of the major reasons for the majority of people.
Age: if you are young, young males of middle school thru their 20s are often not ready to or have any interest in a female for a romantic relationship. Females at any age are looking for commitment of some sort while males at this age are not often ready to commit to a relationship. Yes they have interest in females but more likely at the younger ages, its due to simply wanting to experience sex and they will convince a girl that they love her and want a real romantic relationship just to get the one thing they want...sex. So don't confuse that for romance...its not the same.
Looks: Girls feel they may not be attractive enough, not have pretty hair or face, not enough boobs or hips or too much weight. Males too feel inadaquate in looks too as they are buying in to media's representation of what the opposite sex will find attractive...don't listen....its just to sell products that a person thinks will make them more attractive. Truth is, young people keep choosing looks over personality and its not until bad experiences consistantly with those who look like models but are drama queens, shallow,no personality, OR they simply grow older and realize they have tastes in women that differ from what the media says is a good catch,that men begin to notice the girls that may not have ever dated before. This means there are guys who choose quality over looks. Self confidence is always the deciding factor in mature men, between two women with equal looks. Men often choose the more plain jane with self confidence over the one without. So its very important the things one can't see which i list next.
Unseen things: A female who is too shy, suffers social anxiety, has low self confidence or a bad self image will not only not attract a boyfriend but have difficulty having/keeping girlfriends. This is a big factor in why many girls are without a boyfriend.
Fear: Fear of rejection keeps many guys from asking a girl so if you like anyone in particular and know he's not seeing another gal, ask him out. Males like it when girls ask them out, it takes the pressure off of them. Theres also the fear of how to talk to or act around the opposite sex, fear of approaching someone. The best way to get over this is face the fear, its just a bully that runs away the moment you stand up to it, by doing the very thing you are afraid of, approaching a guy. And if nervous, admit it cus the sooner you do that rather than hide it, the fear and nervousness disappear, I know this as I suffered social anxiety as a kid and teen but overcame it by doing as I've mentioned here.
So analyse yourself or have a close friend do this with you to help with perspective. In what ways do you feel you are lacking. Is there room for improvement on self confidence? Once you know if its something you're doing, or if its just shy guys, you'll know what to do.
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