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Ex bf problems
Me and my ex broke up twice and then last year april we started speaking again almost everyday and hanging out once or twice on a monthly basis and yes we do have sex but recently he just stopped speaking to me and i dont know why,sometimes he would just text me randomly asking how iv been and if im alive eventhou i text hm so much he would rhow up unexpectedly...but this past week ive been texting him alost everyday but he just dont want to reply back to me i even phoned hm but he didnt answer..a few weeks ago when i saw him he told me he likes being around me he just dnt like how clingy iv gotten cause his not keen on clingy...He ignores me like i dont exist anymore and i dont know what i did wrong and i dont know what to do..any advice? iv decided to stay away from him and make myself vanish from him like he never knew me..I dont mean to seem clingy and i dont mean to bombard him with all those texts everyday,i just want to speak to him...do u think his silence and ignoring me is his way of saying leave hm alone and move on,im done and bored of you cause you are clingy..do you think he will show up again and speak to me again wheneva..today i msgd him saying im sorry for always texting hm so much i dnt mean to im just ona other trip and i feel really bad and stuff and i hope hes not mad or anythng..i thought he wouldv replied but he just read it so now i havent heard from him for a week now..isit my fault that he dnt wana speak to me anymore cause i seem clingy lately and iv pushed hm away cause its a turn off...im just worried cause this is the longest he hapnt spoken to me and i dnt knw why im being so ignored..i dont knw what to do anymore,.if i distant myslf and stop texting him do u think he wil show may..im so confused
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He is basically using you for sex. He disappears during times he has found someone else. When that person doesn't work out? He goes looking for you again. Women become clingy when we know a guy is not with us and we are trying to hold onto something that is not working. I would stop giving this guy the time of day. You don't need him and there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Fill your time with friends, hobbies, and moving forward in your career. The right guy will come along when you are happy and busy.
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He's ignoring you because he doesn't like you texting him every day. You still have feelings for him, that's why you want to talk to him every day. He doesn't feel the same way, so he doesn't feel that need that you've been feeling so that's why he doesn't text you.
In the end you guys just don't feel the same about you. He's not interested in dating you anymore, he doesn't feel that need to talk to you all the time like you feel about him.
He may show up again and start talking to you, because of the sex, but that's about it. Hopefully by then you move on and won't want to reply to him.
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He still wants you but don't be so clingy. Just back off of him and act like you don't care. Trust me, he will be all over you. Don't constantly text him because it is very annoying. The fact that you are having sex with him is actually unhealthy for any relationship because you're not married yet. Just move on. I really hope this is a lesson so you won't be clingy anymore. I think he has moved on but still wants sex from you because he's a typical guy. I really hope it works out. Thanks for your time.
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